Wedding’s Breakfast
Currently, the protocol for the wedding breakfast is entirely optional, however, many couples prefer to at least familiarize themselves with it in order to better organize their special day. The freedom in the realization of events is reflected in the time of day, allowing couples to define the steps to follow in their wedding. From entering the hall to the party, each moment can be customized according to the couple's preferences.
Reception:
Traditionally, after the ceremony, a reception is offered where the bride and groom's parents greet the guests. This is the ideal time to congratulate the newlyweds and capture photographs while the visuals are still impeccable. Some couples take advantage of this opportunity to hold their own wedding photo session during the reception.
Wedding Breakfast:
Guests are informed to proceed to the hall or space for the main meal. Normally, following the most traditional protocol, guests wait for the newlyweds to enter before sitting down, although this practice is often flexible.
The Bride and Groom's Table
The table where the bride and groom sit should occupy a prominent place in the hall. In addition to the bride and groom, this table hosts the bridesmaids and groomsmen, close family, and some special guests.
Guest Tables
The tables closest to the presidential table are considered the most important and require careful attention in the choice of their occupants.
Although there is no strict rule, the tables are usually round and accommodate an even number of diners. Protocol suggests that men and women should be equal in number, preferably.
Table Decoration
Each table should have a menu, following the style of the wedding invitations. The centerpieces should not be too high, allowing for a relaxed interaction between guests. Candelabras should only be lit during dinners.
Banquet:
The meal begins with the bride being served first, followed by a short speech by the bride and groom thanking the guests for their presence.
Cutting the Cake:
The bride and groom cut the chosen cake, taste it first, and distribute it to the guests. A romantic moment where everyone toasts to the couple's happiness.
Let the Party Begin!:
The dance begins, first with the bride and father, followed by the parents and remaining guests. From this moment on, the dance floor is open for fun.
Singles' Hour:
The bouquet is thrown, not only to single women, but also to single men, followed by moments of relaxation.
Following protocol, the bride and groom's parents remain at the party until the last guest leaves, although many opt to leave early.
By knowing the protocol of the wedding breakfast, couples can orient themselves and communicate their choices to guests, allowing for a more fluid and personalized celebration.